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I stumbled on this: ways of using your eyes to seem more confident and ways to make your jawline pop in a photo. It's something I have heard of before, but watching these videos really helped see the impact that these photo tips have. https://getpocket.com/explore/item/make-every-photo-a-potential-profile-pic-by-learning-how-to-pose?utm_source=pocket-newtab https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ff7nltdBCHs https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qe3oJnFtA_k After squinching you'll loose some clarity of the eye in the photo. Light will be occluded from the eye, making it darker. Very slightly raise the exposure of just the eyes and de-saturate the whites of the eyes. I'm going to throw in one of my own too. If you aren't taking advantage of the crop tool, you are doing yourself a disservice. Crop your photos so that you take up the majority, but keep context in the photo obviously if it helps tell a story. If you have Photoshop, use frequency separation to even out your skin tones WITHOUT eliminating skin texture (also good for eye bags). https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TRndGkBegGg I'm not sure what you think of the photo I ended up with here, but here's an example of what you could end up with. I imagine some people here could take better advantage of it.

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I'm still getting 0 likes across all apps. 0 interest from the very very rare match. 0 interest in the real world either. All of my previous photos got struck down. I managed to get a few that a think are at least okay. I still am working on replacing a few still on my profile that weren't liked here.

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I'm still in a very ironic metaphorical desert when it comes to any kind of dating. I did however, invest in a GoPro and am not trying to get some actual action shots. Unfortunately I didn't get any usable footage of me standing up, but I did manage to pick out a few scenes that I thought were decent. Images are taken straight from video. I'm going to crop and color correct as needed if there are any worth salvaging. Yes I know there was water on the lens, I can't really help that.

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This follows up with https://forums.playingfire.com/posts/complete-dating-newbie-in-desparate-need-of-advise Still haven't had any dates yet, and it looks like the newbie boost on all of the apps wore off. Haven't had a match in weeks. I kept the forest photo because it's still my most successful photo

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This interaction was going well, but now she just respond with empty texts. Me 1:"everyone always wants to go somewhere warm. What about Greenland dog sledding, no one ever does that" Her 1:"so what's with this voice thing, just curious" Me:"It humanizes this app a bit. I don't know about you, but texting isn't as fun as interacting with a real person" Her:"guess what today is. It's actually my 29th birthday, and I'm going out with some of my friends!" Me:"don't forget your designated driver young lady" If I'm being honest I think when they went out, she showed them the messages, heard my voice, and did what when do and shot me down for her. Do I cut my losses.

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I have what people would say, 0 experience in the dating world. I've been trying to get in, but that's a monumental task despite my best efforts. I've had a single kiss at 26, and most matches die within 2-5 messages. You are the average of the people you hang out with, so maybe you'll rub off on me. I'm hoping that with a little help here I could see some success. I'm getting a few more likes after going through the blueprint, but I only get girls that are older than me, obese, or clearly mentally unstable. I get errors uploading the photos here. So I put them into a drive. https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1sudf6YPQ2o0kvB6DFdCSJnOhRcIpw6xE?usp=sharing Also in there is a typical text conversation for me. I do not vet that hard sexually. I don't care to have sex on the first date or be casual.

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