This interaction was going well, but now she just respond with empty texts.
Me 1:"everyone always wants to go somewhere warm. What about Greenland dog sledding, no one ever does that"
Her 1:"so what's with this voice thing, just curious"
Me:"It humanizes this app a bit. I don't know about you, but texting isn't as fun as interacting with a real person"
Her:"guess what today is. It's actually my 29th birthday, and I'm going out with some of my friends!"
Me:"don't forget your designated driver young lady"
If I'm being honest I think when they went out, she showed them the messages, heard my voice, and did what when do and shot me down for her. Do I cut my losses.
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Just change topic and move conversation forward "How's your Sunday funday going"
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1.You got good game, but you never went for the close.
2.Just go with ''You know what's also great ?''
Her: What ?
You: Our romatic date ;)
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If I don't see any interaction or banter, wouldn't that be for sure a no?
Also, if at this point there are no more responses and I've already pulled the "a woman of few words I see" card, is it the end of the interaction?
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Ya man there is no direction in this texting. Like you are just saying shit to be witty and not moving things forward. watch https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cS_EqRp0Us4 where Alex talks about how to frame your texting to get a date. You spent far far too much time in the vibing stage and she's getting bored.
when she said the dinner and drinks line you should have said "oh ya? and what is your drink of choice?" Then you she will say some type of drink and you will say "ahh my type of girl, we should split (whatever the drink is) on my romantic patio (or balcony or whatever you have at your palce) sometime soon. Then just get through logstics of her schedule and your are all set for close for a date.