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So yesterday I set up a public date near a mall close to me with this girl I had been speaking to online for roughly 2 weeks or so. There were no red flags online and she actually seemed like a nice girl. But before she agreed to meet up she would say that “She’s abit nervous” and that she dosent meet people very often but I reassured her and she was fine with meeting after. She even ubered it to me because she lived abit further away. So we met for like around an hour, she was abit quieter but I would carry the convo and make her vibe and it was going fine, but I had to go to the toilet quickly so I went into it and came back out and she was nowhere to be seen.. at this point I knew she probably just ghosted because she wasn’t answering my text or call, so I just made my way back home. I’ve never had this happen to me EVER before.. usually whenever I meet a girl off tinder or any of the other apps it always goes smoothly. But this situation is starting to make me feel insecure/ ruining my confidence and flow because I’m thinking she basically rejected me on the date lol.. And now this incident has just ruined my flow and I don’t feel comfortable meeting any new girls on the apps for abit. Any tips on how to get over it or what could’ve happened?

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After I’ve had a hookup especially if the girl was good looking and we had great chemistry I tend to catch feelings, to the point where I start to feel abit depressed. It makes things worse because sometimes the girls are just the type for a one night stand so they see other guys too but then that triggers me? Whereas normally it wouldn’t. I really want to continue on in game and I do enjoy it but I can’t deal with these feelings if I keep getting them. Any tips on how to not catch feelings after I’ve hooked up or had a good time with the girl? Thanks I appreciate any help!

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