The current frame that the girl has is that I am chasing her and I need to "earn" a date with her. Obviously, I need to flip the frame instead of trying to go along with it. What is a good response? Here are a few potential ones I came up with: Hmm... I need to earn points to go on this date? Must be an epic date, where are you taking me? You might need to help get those extra 500 points, or you might be missing out on a really fun date. Interesting, do you respect guys who jump through hoops in order to get a date? If I was one of the guys who would be willing to jump through hoops to get a date, would you still respect me? Do any of these sound good, or do you think there is a better way to respond altogether?