I ended up hitting her with the "Hey girl, happy ____" meme which went unanswered. Your reply would have definitely been better, but do you think this is a case where it just wouldn't have gone down either way? dont think the meme was THAT bad

Any way to rectify this or do I just pack my bags and move on

I personally like it. Although I do think 1) the photos make you look a bit short, 2) they're a bit posed and you could do well w some more candids. But the photos are def high quality, maybe someone else will have something more constructive to say

Personally you might even benefit from typecasting yourself into a stereotype of sorts. I know I started getting much better results when I started going with the muscular / bad boy approach as opposed to when I tried to be a jack of all trades. Which is kind of the vibe I get here

Hey Alex, few questions about FireTexts. (also, as an aside, just want to say its fucken amazing and thank you for it, and also congratulations on releasing such an amazing product)

With that said:

1. instead of a monthly subscription, would you ever consider an 'all-in' lifetime subscription? If so, how much would you expect that run for?

2. how much of the AI response is hosted on the back-end? In other words, if some crazy event happens that causes you to pull the app from the store (God forbid) or you abandon the app for other projects, would us users still be able to use it?

How does that aliens line usually work for you? Its not bad

This is a terrible photo OP. No offense. Im sure you have better ones.

What do you usually follow up with? Youre just my type is 50/50 for me afterwards

What made you feel better? The fact that you sent her the message, or the fact that you've created your own closure and have 'moved on'? Asking because I'm in a similar situation, and its really bothering me.

Any update with this?

I haven't been on the apps since 2019. I remember when signing up for Hinge I got 10 matches overnight, and 70 matches within 24 hours. The most I ever had was 700-800, but it plateaued pretty quickly and I never really found out why. My guess is I was just one of the early adopters of the new Hinge so muuuuch less competition. My profile is much better nowadays and even though I match with higher quality girls overall, its much much less matches nowadays. I may be more picky too, but still - dating landscape has def changed.

Lastly, do you think one of the reasons she's been flaking is because she's just very much in her head that all this relationship will be about is just sex? And that I should try 1 final attempt to suss out the problem? (think an Alex text like: "Are you always this difficult to make plans with" etc)

In person, the vibe is fine. People comment on how its clear she likes me. But it just drops dead over text when we try to make plans aka hang out at my house (even though we've already done that stuff)