First date went well, sent followup. How to re-engage?

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M

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M

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First date with a girl at a bar on Thurs (9/5), while we were out we made plans for the following Saturday (9/14) to hang out since that weekend she was busy and weekdays are tough for me. Just a movie + wine back at the crib etc.

Date went well, but Im fresh out of a relationship and overanalyzing / overly in my head about texting. I sent her a followup text today (Sunday) with the goal of possibly planning a mid-week hangout as opposed to waiting to the weekend (as I just found out Ill be off midweek for a few days). But my last text has gone unresponded, which I was plannng to build off towards a soft close.

Pic attached, but basically my question is. How would you re-engage? Aka what double text would you send, and how long would you give it

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avilench . Avatar

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"That amazing huh?"

Also, you do have to realize that because you didn't bang on the first date, she might not show on the 2nd

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M

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I ended up hitting her with the "Hey girl, happy ____" meme which went unanswered. Your reply would have definitely been better, but do you think this is a case where it just wouldn't have gone down either way? dont think the meme was THAT bad

Any way to rectify this or do I just pack my bags and move on

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