Comments by Mike V
Joined 5y agoYou can always use humor in that situation as well. You can say your young instead and run a little sarcasm. As long as she knows in the end. It be funny if you knew she was into you and then you said you were under18 (even if its a blatant lie)
Time to get flirty, you can go at this in many different ways depending on what vibe you want to give off. Also she is 110 miles away so dont be too stressed about messing something up, that’s pretty far in my opinion.
Many girls flake due to being nervous. They could be interested but dont feel uncomfortable with something. You wont know until you dig to find out.
Thank you, that is a really hq reply. Definitely agree with you.
Goal would be a relationship, now that she is done with college and making money. However, knowing her. It would probably be a long shot from my last experience. But I guess I never would know. Maybe last time I just cared to much about what she did.
Edit: thinking back to last time, it was very stressful with her and I am not sure if I would wanna go through that again. However, since 2019 ive learned not to care as much and that could have been a good part of the issue.

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It’s confusing, theres a lot of things that could happen
The very quick investment raises a signal that she could be easily saying the same thing to 100s of matches.
Many girls dont like being on dating apps or having them on their phone so they could delete them frequently. Also a possibltliy to ask for her snap/number. You could say “would you prefer to swap snaps instead?”