Insta model requested to follow me after 2 years
Long story short, I wake up to a notification on instagram, one of the instagram fitness models I used to date slightly famous on Insta and tik tok requested to follow me after she blocked me since summer 2019. So even tho she’s attractive, I dont nessarily like her. She is crazy.
Something was fishy so I dm’d her
Me: ?
Her: what
Me: why did you request to follow me?
Her: why not
How should I reply to this? Im not gonna let her follow me if she doesn’t care at all. But obviously if you had someone blocked for 2 years and then requested to follow, there is probably a reason. I just wanna know
Keep in mind, she is pretty crazy and I dont want her to think she can just use me to be one of her followers/insta supporters. I accidentally matched with her on bumble in January and turned her down then.
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Dude. If you're not into her, then who gives a shit. Just focus on chicks who matter and don't give this a second thought
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How you should reply depends on what you want to happen next. What do you want to happen next?
The mistake is giving a shit what she thinks
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Thank you, that is a really hq reply. Definitely agree with you.
Goal would be a relationship, now that she is done with college and making money. However, knowing her. It would probably be a long shot from my last experience. But I guess I never would know. Maybe last time I just cared to much about what she did.
Edit: thinking back to last time, it was very stressful with her and I am not sure if I would wanna go through that again. However, since 2019 ive learned not to care as much and that could have been a good part of the issue.