So today I was talking to a girl and she asked how old I was. I am an older guy, I said something like old as hell how old are you? She said 21 and I said, "Oooh an older woman!" Here's the thing, it didn't sound like a shit test, it sounded like a genuine concern. My question is, if it is a genuine concern and a girl is weird about dating older men, is there anything you can do?
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Just be straight up “I’m 27, how old are you? I would guess not a day past 19” And she would qualify “Nooo I’m 21”
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I'd say just be relatable to her, try to share your hobbies, passions do so.
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Cool, I ended up sort of doing that bc she’s in music school and I play music. Thanks man
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You can always use humor in that situation as well. You can say your young instead and run a little sarcasm. As long as she knows in the end. It be funny if you knew she was into you and then you said you were under18 (even if its a blatant lie)