Not sure how to follow up
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4 Cmts
3y ago
So I appeared to get some really high investment right off the bat, and this entire conversation was within 30 minutes. Since then, nothing. It’s been a few days, and I’m not sure if I should send a takeaway yet, or exactly what takeaway to use. I’ve never gotten this level of investment this early on before, and it’s thrown me a bit.
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It’s confusing, theres a lot of things that could happen
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The very quick investment raises a signal that she could be easily saying the same thing to 100s of matches.
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Many girls dont like being on dating apps or having them on their phone so they could delete them frequently. Also a possibltliy to ask for her snap/number. You could say “would you prefer to swap snaps instead?”
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Update:
Followed Eric’s suggestion and got an immediate response. Apparently she still is super invested because she said she isn’t on here much and immediately gave me her number, so that worked out pretty well.