I had this happen too. Had a date planned for last Wednesday, last Saturday night she texts me that she wants me to come over for sex, we have sex twice, cuddle and talk a bit. Before I leave we both say we’re looking forward to Wednesday, Wednesday comes and she flakes. I’m thinking either the sex wasn’t great for her, or she’s really just looking for booty calls.

I was married for 16 years and I think she wanted something that looked like it’s be long term. That said, even if it wasn’t her real reason the whole concept of accepting rejection and moving on still stands.

Your logistics game is pretty solid. I think she didn’t have enough investment for such a long convo on logistics though. If logistics is running long, pull back and be flirty again, remind her why she wants to meet you.

Good advice.

Don’t. Don’t send dick pics until you’ve met her. Too many blackmail scams going around.

“We’ll find more creative ways to ruin that dress on our romantic date”

Yeah it really turned me off. Only reason I stuck around was basically guaranteed sex. She’s going back to Brazil in two weeks so it was never going to be something serious, so I’m glad I didn’t invest too much emotionally.

Anything can be flirting. It’s the tone and the feeling you give off. I always look for a coy smile on her face (hope I’m using coy correctly).

Sometimes it just isn’t gonna happen no matter what. Not everyone is compatible. I had to go on a bunch of dates to learn how to calibrate and push/pull. Last several dates have ended with make outs and last week sex on the first date. I’m still gonna have dates that go nowhere but I’m getting better.

Not sure about your physicality but I struggled when I started because I was pretty heavy. I’m not fit bit I’m way better now which makes your flirting better received. And don’t be shy to go for the kiss if you have that long eye contact sexual tension.

“Unless you’re a secret fatty. In that case I charge for piggy back rides.”