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So I’m planning a trip to the south of Spain with 4 of my friends soon, one of whom speaks Spanish. Now I’m wondering what are some good things to implement into my bio when traveling? Should I just get my friend to translate my current bio to Spanish? Make it known that I’m not staying long? Any other pointers are also appreciated. Also, I have tinder gold. What is the best way to use the passport feature? Any feedback is appreciated!
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I’m posting this because thought of some Tinder openers that might be good, but I wanna hear you guys thoughts. “Okay I’ll be your boyfriend, on one condition...” “You look suspiciously innocent” “This is awkward, I actually swiped for your dog/cat/dress/whatever.” “Are you as modest as I am?” Also, feel free to share your own openers to get an opinion on them.
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Matched with this chick Saturday evening around 19:40, then planned a date for 21:45. Would probably rate her a 6.5. We did not hook up this date because she was on her period, otherwise this would have definitely been the case. Did that on the second date. Unfortunately the texting is in Dutch so some subtleties will get lost in translation. Still hope you guys enjoy: Me: Damn what a neatly cleaned room Her: Hahaha that’s not my room, but my friend’s Me: Of course it is, I hope you’re not gonna make a mess of my room too Her: I would help you clean up then ;) Me: Alright good deal, you know what they say, the bigger the mess the better the date Her: Never heard that but makes sense Her: I mean it’s never boring because I’m very chaotic, but in the mess I still find what I need Me: Ah, so that’s how you found me ;) Her: Oh yeah, are you what I need? Me: Only one way to find out Her: True Me: Are you feeling spontaneous tonight? Her: Actually yeah, first night I haven’t planned anything and so far it’s quite boring Me: Do you like wine? Her: Definitely Me: Great, let’s share a bottle on my romantic patio then tonight Her: “your” romantic patio? Me: Yes it’s part of the house I live in Her: Oh wow, I’m being directly invited to your place even Me: Well, I would rather meet halfway to make sure you’re not a 50 year old dude Her: Hahaha I get that, but how do I know you’re not a 50 year old creep? ;) Me: I’ll bring my ID Her: Hahaha that still doesn’t prove you’re not a creep ;) Me: Yes it does, there’s stamp on it that says: “Not a creep” Her: Oh wow really haha Me: yeah, super convenient. But let’s continue talking over whatsapp so we can pick a spot to meet. Me: Hey this is your date for this evening ;) Here we talk about my profile picture with my dog, it’s super irrelevant so I’ll skip to my second message in the 7th screenshot. Me: So what’s a street near your house Her: “street name” Her: I actually had to google this hahaha Me: Haha, it’s not a problem Her: Good Me: This seems like a good place (sent 2 pictures of google maps with a pin) Her: Hahaha aren’t these two different places or am I supposed to pick one? Me: No one is zoomed in Her: Oh you had me confused hahaha Her: But sounds good, what time? Me: 21:45? Me: Later is also fine Her: That’s fine I don’t need that long to get ready Me: Great I’m gonna hop in the shower and get some wine Her: Hahaha alright Me: leaving in 5, 21:45 still works? Her: Yes it does Me: Great see you soon then Her: see you soon Me: there in 4 Her: waiting at the bus stop
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Alright, so when I matched with this girl she was like 4km away but turned out she lives a 2 hour train ride away. Thing is, as a student you can ride the train for free and I actually love working in the train so logistics were fine for me. Definitely not the greatest text game you’ll ever see but I think there are some good elements to this LR. Most striking was how much more invested she became the second I mentioned cooking an Asian dish. Sex was great for me but she wasn’t feeling a second date. Enjoy.
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Alright, so I have been trying to make plans with this girl I matched with on bumble for about a week now and she claims she’s quite busy. Last week I said I was free on friday and Saturday, but those days didn’t work for her because she had 2 birthdays. After a little back and forth I suggested 2 other days. This was on Thursday. She doesn’t reply to this message but then Friday night she messages me: “I’m available now.” However, I was already asleep. So now my question for you guys is: what would you guys say?
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Hi, so I’m quite inexperienced with text-game and would like some suggestions on how to set up a date with this girl in the near future. Also if you have some criticism on my text game as a whole, or if you see some sticking points let me know. I’m thinking about these potential responses: -Alright, but lets continue talking over text then -damn girls name, What happened to that good girl enthusiasm -being a little bratty I see Let me know what you guys think!
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Hi! First post here and first of all I wanted to thank Alex for the amazing content on Youtube. It’s been really helpful. So I texted a while with this girl on bumble, we flirted a bit with her making me Chinese food. I’ll add the texts up to this point, how do I make the hard close?
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