Tinder turns 10: what have we learned from a decade of dating apps?
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Texted on Feeld, then moved to WhatsApp a week ago. Set up date for tomorrow, text a little yesterday and then followed up today at midday, just to check in. And that's where it feel apart, but I managed to turn it around luckily. The lesson I had learned from PWF was to ask about the concern. Without knowing it, it cannot be addressed and overcome. And her explanation why she didn't want to mean... Don't take it as true for what some women say. It's just a way out and can be just an excuse. I already had the gut feeling how long it took her (2h) to answer that she might flake on me.
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What are you ways of making a girl qualify herself or even invest more in a conversation? I understand this is dependent of context and how a chat is going, but maybe you have some general things that you could share.
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Hi, On Saturday I hooked up with a really cute that lives about an hour from me. We had great sex on the beach. Saw her the next day, yesterday, at the beach party during the day. We said hi, kissed a bit, although she then hung out with her friends. She came over later again, we kissed for a few minutes, but then said our goodbyes. When she actually left we blew each other a kiss. How should I go about the follow-up here? I'm going on a holiday on Wednesday. Just want to avoid coming off as needy. Thanks for any suggestions.
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Hi Any suggestions what to answer her? Thanks ;)
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Hi, With all the frequent posts about photo reviews, I thought it would be good to collect a few resources on how to get nice pics. This IG channel has great guidance on how to pose and how to take pictures. Adapt as necessary to not take such super-posed pictures, but you get the idea. https://www.instagram.com/mr.dasante/ This is a Pinterest board I've put together for myself when I did a photoshoot last summer. It gave me some ideas for locations and poses. https://www.pinterest.co.uk/hsepplmayer/lifestyle-photoshoot/ See this thread on how to look into the camera: https://forums.playingfire.com/posts/invaluable-photo-taking-and-editing-tips What other valuable tricks or resources do you have?
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Context is I met this girl, hot 25yr old Argentian, at my concert, went to a house party after and made out. Couldn't take her home for having to get up super early the next day. Was texting a bit during the week to keep her warm and now arrange a date for the weekend. She just replied the following (translated from Spanish): "Look, I don't want to waste your time, I understand that you're asking me out, but right now I'm confused with someone else. I'm not up for a date. Everything is fine with you anyway, and we can see each other doing another plan without problem😊" How do I respond?
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