Comments by Herb S
Joined 4y agoShe asked you what "you do" for a living, not in that moment. Haha
Gotta switch to English, mate.
Profile 1 looks more "put together", concise to me.
Profile 2, the blue t-shirt climbing pic and the bike pic hurt you. On the bike it looks like a little boy. It's not adding anything, it's literally substracting from your "value".
My opinion.
Sounds like your dates are just boring and don't build any sexual tension?
What do you usually do with them? What setting, what do you do, for how long?
Imagine you'd have a partner, a job and kids... What's your priorities?
She's busy. Be relaxed, it'll happen if it's meant to happen.
No wonder with those pics.
Your profile reads like this:
"Aha, a guy with a low-quality mirror selfie pic from some random hotel in a tshirt. Meh...."
That'll give a lot of left swipes. Then, IF they continue swiping:
"Ok, some random dudes. Which one is he? I guess the one in the middle, but the first pic didn't really show what he looks like. Aha, some random image where you can see exactly nothing.... A dog... and a bad pic at that from 2007.... Well this guy makes this effort for his profile, I can only imagine how much effort he would make on a date or with me."
doesn't sound sketchy from the texting. But usually one can trust one's gut instinct. I'd just meet up in public first, then see.
What should you do?
Nothing. Is it not clear she doesn't want to interact.
Just move one and forget about this person. Not worth your time.

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They're not that bad. Good effort, but can be improved.
But probably they're still better than what you got now.
Pic #2: careful with that outfit. It literally looks like a piyama top and some joggers for the bottom.
Have a look at this thread where I put together some resources: https://forums.playingfire.com/posts/resources-for-photoshootsposes