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Comments by Herb S

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They're not that bad. Good effort, but can be improved.
But probably they're still better than what you got now.
Pic #2: careful with that outfit. It literally looks like a piyama top and some joggers for the bottom.

Have a look at this thread where I put together some resources: https://forums.playingfire.com/posts/resources-for-photoshootsposes

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She asked you what "you do" for a living, not in that moment. Haha
Gotta switch to English, mate.

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Profile 1 looks more "put together", concise to me.
Profile 2, the blue t-shirt climbing pic and the bike pic hurt you. On the bike it looks like a little boy. It's not adding anything, it's literally substracting from your "value".
My opinion.

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7 Posts (+5), 347 Cmts (+123)

Sounds like your dates are just boring and don't build any sexual tension?
What do you usually do with them? What setting, what do you do, for how long?

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7 Posts (+5), 347 Cmts (+123)

Imagine you'd have a partner, a job and kids... What's your priorities?
She's busy. Be relaxed, it'll happen if it's meant to happen.

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7 Posts (+5), 347 Cmts (+123)

Share pics and we tell you where/why it's failing

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7 Posts (+5), 347 Cmts (+123)

No wonder with those pics.

Your profile reads like this:
"Aha, a guy with a low-quality mirror selfie pic from some random hotel in a tshirt. Meh...."
That'll give a lot of left swipes. Then, IF they continue swiping:
"Ok, some random dudes. Which one is he? I guess the one in the middle, but the first pic didn't really show what he looks like. Aha, some random image where you can see exactly nothing.... A dog... and a bad pic at that from 2007.... Well this guy makes this effort for his profile, I can only imagine how much effort he would make on a date or with me."

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7 Posts (+5), 347 Cmts (+123)

doesn't sound sketchy from the texting. But usually one can trust one's gut instinct. I'd just meet up in public first, then see.

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7 Posts (+5), 347 Cmts (+123)

What should you do?
Nothing. Is it not clear she doesn't want to interact.
Just move one and forget about this person. Not worth your time.

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7 Posts (+5), 347 Cmts (+123)

Much better.

  • Add a pic with a smile into the mix
  • Who holds/pours a drink like that?! Way too posed.
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