Joined tinder 3 days ago and I must say it’s been an overwhelming success. Getting far more attention than I thought I would with over 150 likes on the first day and about 260 in total now . Lined up 4 dates for the next 4 days and got a bunch more keen I need to set up (could easily get ten total). I haven’t even done any swiping in the deck really just went into the likes column on tinder gold. Haven’t been single in 7 years so I have no clue what I’m doing anymore. Went on my first date tonight (with a girl Who is looking for marriage no less) and I felt I was a little awkward. I went in for the kiss anyway and she reciprocated and we kissed for a few mins but when I tried to touch her she was a firm no. She was hot but I feel there was no chemistry at all. Really looking for tips on how to spark chemistry between the two of you. I find it so easy over message but in person I’m just not good anymore. So rusty. Feel somewhat down about myself now. The girl hasn’t messaged me after the date and suppose I’m not gonna message her either. On tinder the next one I guess??