@avilench . what do you think of "I get that, I am also focusing on developing myself. It would be a shame to end things here without even grabbing a coffee, don't you think?

I know right... What would you answer tho?

avilench . Also tagging you Alex, if you have time to share your 2 cents

Jay Mill I really like your advice, what would you say here?

I would have gone with "How come?" after she answered, if she doesn't answer > "Don't think too hard now" > "Thought you are quite talkative"...

The screenshot didn't load, my bad. Agree with @Ryan X, suggest something nearby

What did she say exactly?

fwiw, I went with "Don't worry, It wasn't a tricky question" and she hit me in whatsapp :" Hey, It's X here!"

There are more variable than this, I know the mistakes I have made but don't think it is dead.

"are you always this talkative" is too aggressive here not sure how to build on what I said, the thing is sent all those at the same time hoping that she would then answer through whatsapp

100%. I sent what you see in the screenshots however from a pattern I identified already, I can tell she won't answer...

So I am thinking about re-engaging later with: "Can I be honest? One of my biggest turn-ons is effort. I really like when a girl is motivated to meet me and shows it. That's what I liked about you. But now you are not even willing to meet in public? I genuinely didn't take you for the flakey type.

What do you think? Straight to the point? Too much?