What would you answer? Screenshots attached I remember Alex made a video where he mentioned something like: It would be a shame to end things here or smth like that but I can't seem to find it. And that doesn't seem to fit. Is there a way to overcome this?
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I know right... What would you answer tho?
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@avilench . what do you think of "I get that, I am also focusing on developing myself. It would be a shame to end things here without even grabbing a coffee, don't you think?
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ya agree with Alex, something most likely happened or she didn't like your voice memo, I think the later is more likely unless you have a really beta sounding voice. One piece of advice for the future just to eliminate risk. Only use a voice memo if you are trying to get further engagement or are getting stuck and want to build comfort. You never know how someone is going to react to your voice memo and some girls are just looking for excuses to next a guy.
When you are in the logistics stage and get a positive response as you did then just keep texting even if she voice memos you (unless she asks for one back then you can't avoid it). I am not saying that is what hurt you in this instance, it was probably unrelated circumstances but I would say it was an unnecessary risk that wasn't worth it given where you were at in the convo.
You can take a shot at this text or a slight variation "Imagine you swiped right on your future husband but never grabbed even a coffee with him. Would be a shame don't you think?" either one is fine but don't expect it to be a high probability like this has around a 5% chance at this point.