Comments by Davis B
Joined 7y agoScreenshots would help with a response. But I agree with the above posts. Ask for the day and schedule the date that day.
She is most likely getting the vibe that you are kinda pen paling around. Always look to move things forward to progressing to get her off the app and over to text to set a date. Good profile and bio should do the heavy lifting no need for lots of small talk. Advise. Just say. "What are you looking for on here"
Wouldnt advise sleeping over the first time you see her. I agree with Alex not a big deal that you dont have a job. Way back when girls asked me what I was doing for work when I was a server and in college. I just told them I run an internet marketing company. If I had to expand I just came up with what came to mind. So in my opinion not having a job and staying the night "not sure if this was the first meetup" isnt the greatest look. It kinda just looks like you are craving a womens touch for too long and you need it IMO. Personally I wouldnt have a girl stay over till the third or fourth time and only let them stay over if I wanted something potentially long term. I'd reengage with the Ryan Gosling meme 48-72 hours later.
This is normal typical female behavior. They pullback around the 2-4 week mark to test your interest level to see if you 'need' them or just 'want' them. It's a subconscious thing women do without even knowing. I wouldnt sweat it one bit. Word of advice for you. Unless you see yourself wanting to go long term with the girl I wouldnt advise sleeping over at hers or yours. Text her the Ryan Gosling meme in 48 hours or "Yo sexy" or something like that. Dont stress.
Should’ve pivoted way sooner. Girls have a low buying temp in the beginning. Use the apps to set dates. Not have a pen pal. Dm me on insta if you need help. davis_bigelow
Add some sexuality to your bio. Not too much but something. Keep good eye contact. Allow your non verbals to communicate. Allow awkward silence. Trust me it’s not all that awkward. Ask though provoking sexual questions. Not too much. If you need help dm me on insta davis_bigelow

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Do the license first. If it doesnt work. Hard reset.