So I closed my 7th a bit over a week ago and I did it within 10mins of entering her house. Flipped on a show over some wine and then escalated to sex. Slept Over too. One part I may have DLV'd was when I told her I wasn't working at the time and just doing personal projects. Regardless though, she went cold rather abruptly. Is this an instance of buyer's remorse? What takeaway would you hit her with? I'm still interested in seeing her again.
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Doubt it had anything to do with the working part.. but to answer your question, it could be a multitude of reasons. Maybe she just wanted a ONS. Maybe she has a BF. Did you make her cum? And if so, how many times?
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She came one time to my recollection. From what I've seen on men lasting 4 times shorter than women on average I doubt it's because my sexual performance wasn't good. I could try a another follow up soon.
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yeah maybe its not bad could be a whole bunch of reasons like I mentioned you can send her a text like "hey it seems like you're not interested, which is totally cool. I'm just curious is there something I said or did that turned you off? no hard feelings either way"
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Wouldnt advise sleeping over the first time you see her. I agree with Alex not a big deal that you dont have a job. Way back when girls asked me what I was doing for work when I was a server and in college. I just told them I run an internet marketing company. If I had to expand I just came up with what came to mind. So in my opinion not having a job and staying the night "not sure if this was the first meetup" isnt the greatest look. It kinda just looks like you are craving a womens touch for too long and you need it IMO. Personally I wouldnt have a girl stay over till the third or fourth time and only let them stay over if I wanted something potentially long term. I'd reengage with the Ryan Gosling meme 48-72 hours later.