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I know this girl from a “pal at college”. So she knows of me. Think I’ve been left on read as I’ve added her on insta since my last message and she added me back too almost instantly, so interest is still maybe there. Looking back on the messages, I was a bit dry maybe? On her bio she goes to a club a lot that I used to go to, so thinking of saying back. - “I must save up a Wednesday and see you at “club name” when you’re back in glasgow in July” Let me know, thanks.

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Hey, there is a bit of a background story for this girl I matched with on Tinder. So this girl is someone I know of, not talked to in person. But she is someone who went to a neighbouring high school of mine (For clarity I graduated school like 4 years ago and we the same age). Some people I'm friends with know this girl, and I think she has the same reception as me. So cause I knew of this girl, I didn't want to use the "hey trouble" opener, so I would rather play it safe. When I matched, I left it a day till I sent my first message. The response she gave, I thought, was pretty good. So then I sent a text which I wasn't sure on, as it mentioned us going on a date, but I thought I could do this message later but thought I would just do it now. So now I have had no response in a day, so going to leave it for 2 or 3 days to see if she replies. But thoughts on the message and what I can do going forward? I have been quite bad lately of being a bit needy with messaging girls, with double messaging and that, so I'm trying to take a step back recently. Like I'm gonna wait if she replies but thoughts on what I could say? Is this savable? Cheers - Muzz

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Was using the - can I be honest? line and getting good replies to it but maybe from girls who just wanna know what am thinking rather than linking up with me. This girl I used it on is like a solid 8/10 good body. So convo went like this Me - Can I be honest Girl - Sure go for it Me - You just seem like my type Girl - wish I felt the same :( xx Cold ass response. Don't wanna curse her out and be upset in the response, but any good ideas on a reply back to this. Was thinking this is maybe a shit test as in her hinge profile is saying the way wo win her over is by finding out yourself. But yeah no sure, let me know.

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