Shit I should have waited for you, probably may have blown it. I think at this point I'll just give her a healthy amount of space and next time I reengage her I'll just ask how she is doing and won't immediately try to soft close.

Hey man just wanted ask for your help again. She texted me today and she canceled. I don't know whether I should try to ask for a meet up again seeing as how she didn't ask to reschedule. Don't wanna be needy or anything. Any ideas on how to approach this?

Can't thank you enough for the advice dude. Can and would love to continue to keep you posted if you'd like.

Hey man so just an update - she got back to me. Here's what she said and here what I sent in the voice memo. Curious about your thoughts.

Thanks man 🙏. Your advice is actually more in tune to how I am as a person and it feels more right to me. And hey if she still doesn’t respond after I send the follow up then I did all I could and I will not further disrespect myself by pursuing someone who doesn’t want me back.

Will keep you posted on how it goes!

I was thinking about sending her a voice note as a follow up, asking her if she's free to meet up and explore around town - she's, new and I'd like to show her around. Would that be showing value and not coming off as that all I want is sex? Or should I go the more playful route and call her out for ghosting like Jamie and Chris are suggesting? I remember her telling me she's had situationships in the past so maybe that might be what is coming into play here?

Sounds good - I'll definitely wait till I send anything to her then. Wanna get all the feedback I can. Also why is that? Do girls just get scared away if you try to soft close after sex?

Interesting, has that worked often in your experience? I was also thinking about using one of Alex's lines "Don't think too hard now"

Thank you Chris, much appreciated. Do you think it would matter if I sent a text to her tomorrow or later than that? If we are talking about calling out disrespect, I would think you'd want to do it sooner rather than later no?

I thought of this one: "I know its almost Halloween, but I didn't think you'd be an actual ghost". Is that kinda what you had in mind?