Hey all, I am new here to the PWF Forums. Matched with this girl on Hinge in September, she was moving into my part of town in October. Come October I hit her up and we went on a date last Thursday to get drinks and ended up having sex on the first date. She texts me as soon as she got home saying she had a great time and I replied saying I did too. Next day I had to travel back to my hometown to visit family but on Sunday before I left my home town I texted her asking what her schedule is like this coming week. No response to this day. Was looking to see if people think its a good idea to hit her up Thursday or Friday this week and what might be a good way to phrase the follow up? Or if I should just leave it and wait for her to respond? Curious what you guys think - open to feedback and criticism.
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Hey man just wanted ask for your help again. She texted me today and she canceled. I don't know whether I should try to ask for a meet up again seeing as how she didn't ask to reschedule. Don't wanna be needy or anything. Any ideas on how to approach this?
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"ah that's a bummer, but I understand. Bar crawls can be rough like that. How did yesterday go for you?"
Not butthurt yet honest and subtly puts her in a supplication frame to qualify that she didnt get too sloppy drunk yesterday, while giving her a chance to clarify that it perhaps wasn't the bar crawl but something else Is up. If a girl knows sex is "expected" it takes more for her to get motivated to meet - if genuine interest is super high she still will, but her interest in you seems kinda moderate imo. Yeah do not suggest a reschedule right now, just vibe and show a bit of kindness from a strong frame while also qualifying her. Good luck
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Shit I should have waited for you, probably may have blown it. I think at this point I'll just give her a healthy amount of space and next time I reengage her I'll just ask how she is doing and won't immediately try to soft close.
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