So basically the title Last night, (Saturday) I matched with 25 yr old from online (It turns out we had matched on a different site about 5 months prior and exchanged numbers. I still had her contact info in my phone, and our texts from 5 months ago) We chatted on the phone, had good rapport. She suggests we hang out, I didn't even push for it She lives 45 miles away, and doesn't have a car We agreed I'll pick her up and we'll hang out at my place (She's very cute so it was worth it) During the 45 minute car ride to my place, we held hands, had great rapport, fun conversation, had my hand on her thigh, etc (I'm emphasizing here I had reason to believe it "was on") Back at my place we cuddled, made out on the couch, moved to the bed then she got annoying and difficult, wouldn't take off any clothes and I realized she's not going to put out at this point I was no longer interested in continuing the date I wanted her to leave so I can get on with my evening But I'm conflicted: am I now obligated to drop her off home, driving 90 miles round trip? I felt a very strong obligation to drop her off at the location I got her. But on the other hand, she wasted my time and I felt like I would be getting taken advantage of if I transport her. I'm not her damn Uber Today, this idea came to me: I could have dropped her off at a 24-hour gas station near my place and said, "hey, it was nice hanging out, take it easy" and just leave. (Maybe hand her 20 bucks cash). She'd think I'm an asshole, but could I get in trouble/bad consequences for doing that? (I have an interior dashcam so I'm not worried about false accusations). That's where I'll end the scenario and ask my question. What would you have done? (Apart from not getting into that situation to begin with). (However, what wound up happening is this: I thought maybe she needed 2 dates to feel comfortable. We left my place and took her out for pizza that night. While we were out she said, "we should hang out again and get an earlier start". Then I drove her back. . When dropping her off, she repeated that she wanted to hang out again. Of course today she ghosted. The upshot is: I got nothing out of it, I entertained her, I drove 180 miles and I wasted a Saturday night I could have been out talking to other girls).
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