Girl suggests taking her dog along for first date (from online)
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After several exchanges, girl from an online site showed interest and pitched the first date as follows:
"Would you ever be down to go for a walk with my dog and I in one of the parks here in town?"
Normally I'd be down for meeting in a park.
I'm hesitant about bringing her dog, though. I love dogs but I don't like the idea of the dog being the center of attention. I like to hold the girl's hand, bring her toward me, get physical. Dog is an unknown variable. They can cockblock, interfere with getting physical, give the girl an excuse to relieve the tension by diverting her attention away from me
My gut tells me it's a valid concern. How to not have the dog come?
Thanks!
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''Damn, (insert name) i didn't think you would dogblock me''
9 Posts (-1), 19 Cmts (+3)
I could just ask her not to bring the dog without the witty line but I’m assuming it risks offending the girl. To most girls it would be like rejecting their kid.
I once asked a girl outright not to bring her dog and I got, “he’s my judge of character, he’s gotta like you or it’s a huge red flag” bullshit

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"That sounds amazing but for our first date, I have a different plan :)" and set up drinks/wine at home