Appreciated

Thanks man. That was one of my thoughts so was good to get another opinion.

Too sexual too quick for sure. A shower thought is just a random realization (just scroll through reddit/showerthoughts to find one). If you had screened with a sexual bio it would have been more acceptable but I doubt you had on Hinge.

"Just something about your look that tells me your a good girl" ?? That's a hard one

From Alex's sexual tension video which is absolutely huge - there is often no good time to go for a kiss, just pick a time that doesn't suck. Personally, I just wait for a moment of silence or end of conversation stream. Otherwise while talking you could just say "close your eyes for a second" or "can I tell you a secret" and just go for it. That prevents the awkward lean in moment.

Looks pretty good to me so fair, cool and confident. Might be pushing it a little too far too quick by proposing going to vegas together, but we haven't seen her reply so who knows. I'd just go for a wine date local to both of you.

I hate to say it, but you might have screwed it. She's probabaly decided your not the same person you were over text, and aren't worth the 2 hour drive. The best you can do is just own it, Eg "Hey about yesterday, your call took me by surprise and I was super stressed and tired from work so wasn't my best self etc etc".

That's not a bad response at all. I like Eric's suggestion. Just get to know each other a bit and then drop the "do you like X" seed. Also, when/if she asks "tell me about yourself" say "what would you like to know?", instead of randomly qualifying yourself (Alex's idea).

3 and 13 are good

"Neither, I prefer to get to know someone in real life"