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Hey guys, just a question. You'll see I'm struggling a bit with opening, I want to make them personal and start steering it to a potential date but I don't know how. How can I crack my own openers? Or which openers do you use in case nothing comes up?

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Hey guys so i wanted to know how can I reply to this: Her: hey Me: hey, I like your style 👌 Her: hellooo. I like your name. I think your the first Iker I have met

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Hey guys I've been away from the community for 2 years I believe. I wanted to leave aside the dating part for a little and focus more on myself. Anyway I'm starting with dating apps again and right now I got a text I don't know how to proceed. Me: So I'm guessing we're dating now? Her: Wdym? How con I keep going with a flirting and funny vibe? Second and I think it's attached with the first question but, how can I be more fun and flirty to set up a date? And how can I have and keep the framework of "I am the prize"? Is getting to know you chat a good thing? How can I be more witty? What could you say are dominant not only actions but comments as well. Like "your mine" or some shit like that? Thirdly I want to know your opinion of these pictures I believe are good for my profile Thanks for the advice and the support

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So I matched with this girl on tinder I didn't get many replies she said she doesn't use the app so much and the qñwe moved to IG, but basically it started like this. Me: Can I be honest? Her: Yes Me: You seem like my type Her: Omg. Haha 🤭❤️ Me: Haha. Where are you from? Her: State. You? 🥰 Me: Same. Where do you live? Her: State. You? ❤️ Me: Yeah but I mean town No response (2 days later) Me: Hola guapa Her: Hi Me: How's your day been? No response (Next day) Me: Thinking hard I see Her: Would you like to talk on IG? I don't use this app a lot. Me: Yeah, pass me your username Her:Username On IG: I saw her profile it was wierd like a brand new one, so it made me question the authenticity. Followed her, she followed back liked a picture from my IG. Me: Hey I think we know each other Her: Hi. Yeah a little bit. Me: Good. We can get to know each other more and flirt more. Her: Haha🥰. Yes we can Me: Just one question Her: Tell me Me: Is your profile brand new? Her: Yeah. My other account was deleted 🥺 Me (I had to make sure it was completely safe to carry on): Ok. How can I know you're not gonna kidnap me? Her: Because I don't know your address yet. If not you would be on a black van already. Haha I'm kidding. Me: And what if I resist? (Trying to go flirty and sexualize) Left on seen Did i do something wrong? And what can I do here? I was thinking on reopening her or use a takeaway. I'm not too sure which one would be better.

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Hey guys, I've been on the game for a few weeks, I ended up uninstalling tinder because I got bored. Either way as I said in my previous post I had some successes and flaws. I still feel I'm lacking something but I believe the best way for you to help me is by uploading some of my convos. I can upload the screenshots but they're in spanish so I'm gonna translate it for y'all. The first girl is someone I met on tinder it was really nice very invested and went to Instagram: Me: Hey! I think we know each other Her: Hey! We do. Let's text over here Me: Alright. Now we can talk about our date Her: Hahaha wow. It's too fast. Why don't you talk about you. Me: What would you like to know? No response Me re engaged: Hola linda Her: Hey! Me: How's the day of my favorite red hair girl going? No response Me: Relax it's not a test Her: Heey! Hahaha. How are you? Me: sends picture of my dog Very well playing with this guy. You? Her: Owww. He's so cute. Nothing I'm going out with my mom. Me: Thanks. He says he's excited to meet you. That's cool. What will you do? No response Me: sends picture of my dog Jocho misses you. Her: Owww. He's really cute. Me: Ah she lives. Her: Clicks on video call by mistake Hahaha. Omg. I'm sorry. Yes I do haha Me: Oh my so early and you want to facetime already. It's good to have you back with the living. Her: Hahaha. Sorry I clicked it by mistake. I'm sorry I really die once a month haha. Me: It's okay but it would be better a date than a facetime call. Hahaha good to know I'll text once a month. No response*

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I have downloaded Bumble and Tinder, and talked with some girls. I believe I have a 50/50 rate of success. Got number close several times (I haven't dated for some reasons but mainly because I'm injured), bantered with them but I still feel like I'm lacking something. I want to know how I can show intent the good way and how to sexualize better, I've tried it but it seems they're very cautious about it, so I have to recalibrate. I could post screenshots but they're in Spanish

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Hey everyone. I'm from Mexico and I'm 19 years old. I've watched some of PWF videos and somehow I still feel stuck. I'm somewhat an introvert and I don't have downloaded tinder because at least her in Mexico, it has such a bad fame because of all of the catfish thing. I had a few girlfriends but must of the time I find it hard to flirt. How can I flirt? What is the frame where I should be? How do I make a conversation man to woman? How do I sexualize? How do I show intent? Your help will be much appreciated.

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