Did i do something wrong?

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So I matched with this girl on tinder I didn't get many replies she said she doesn't use the app so much and the qñwe moved to IG, but basically it started like this.
Me: Can I be honest?
Her: Yes
Me: You seem like my type
Her: Omg. Haha 🤭❤️
Me: Haha. Where are you from?
Her: State. You? 🥰
Me: Same. Where do you live?
Her: State. You? ❤️
Me: Yeah but I mean town
No response

(2 days later)
Me: Hola guapa
Her: Hi
Me: How's your day been?
No response

(Next day)
Me: Thinking hard I see
Her: Would you like to talk on IG? I don't use this app a lot.
Me: Yeah, pass me your username
Her:Username

On IG: I saw her profile it was wierd like a brand new one, so it made me question the authenticity. Followed her, she followed back liked a picture from my IG.
Me: Hey I think we know each other
Her: Hi. Yeah a little bit.
Me: Good. We can get to know each other more and flirt more.
Her: Haha🥰. Yes we can
Me: Just one question
Her: Tell me
Me: Is your profile brand new?
Her: Yeah. My other account was deleted 🥺
Me (I had to make sure it was completely safe to carry on): Ok. How can I know you're not gonna kidnap me?
Her: Because I don't know your address yet. If not you would be on a black van already. Haha I'm kidding.
Me: And what if I resist? (Trying to go flirty and sexualize)
Left on seen

Did i do something wrong? And what can I do here? I was thinking on reopening her or use a takeaway. I'm not too sure which one would be better.

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V

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Ask her to shoot her number and change to text instead of insta

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Iker Alfa Avatar

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Sure thing. But after I reopen the convo or after the takeaway?

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Yeah. I wouldn't have brought up that whole thing about kidnapping you and the whole "What if I resist part" also.

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Alright. Then it is a lost cause?

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avilench . Avatar

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I wouldn't give up just yet. Wait a day or two and then re-engage

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