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This is one of my last posts, my time here is almost up. I might have something good tomorrow night, fingers crossed. I post because I want to give back to PWF which has literally changed my life. I now have a practical and repeatable texting system that allows me to get the girls who are interested out on a date. I used to leave a lot of poon on the table, unnecessarily, due to sub optimal texting. Alex has taught me patience, persistence, and how to efficiently move toward the close. There are minor sexual undertones yet I don't sexualize too much. I don't find it necessary. All girls want to fuck. This texting is fairly straight forward, nothing special. Met out, a block from my apt. Had a drink and appetizer. Walked her back to my place, never mentioned where we were going, same line, come in, have a glass of wine, please don't steal any artwork. TBH, we kissed a little, yet didn't hook up. I give off the boyfriend vibe a lot which tends to work against me. It is ok, we had a great time. I didn't push it because I am actually interested in seeing her again. She is petite and smart, totally my type. I learned patience from Alex, and it has paid off.

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Hi, I posted something last week about a girl who flaked and how I handled it well, thanks to the Bossman (Alex). Last night I took her out. The date went well, to be honest we did not hook up, she is super reserved. That is not the point of this post. The point is I never would have even followed up with a flake before PWF. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

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My Hinge account is great- tons of matches, and they roll in constantly. I am also on Tinder, JSwipe, Bumble, and The League. To be honest, I get nothing from any of these apps. Same pics. Any thoughts?

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Hinge date flaked and I didn't even see it till an hour before the date. Instead of thinking, "fuck this ho," like I usually did in the past, I was empathetic and understanding. She seems genuine and shit does happen. I'll probably meet up with her next week. Alex is right. It does you no good to not believe her. Here is the good shit- I still do a ton of cold approach, every day. So I have constant new leads from that. Plus, thanks to the Bossman, my Hinge account is bananas. I have so many girls waiting who I have already wine closed and more come in constantly. So I'm currently in abundance. So I quickly contacted 2 chicks who were on tap. One from cold approach, one from Hinge. I sent the Hinge chick a voice recording, and it disappeared (note this when reading the text exchange) Cold approach replied first. Hinge chick took too long so I had to get rid of her. I used a bossman Alex text which I think left her very wet. I used to fuck up those interactions. I opened the cold approach chick with a bossman line. Again, BA (before Alex) I had no idea how to smoothly ask out a girl so last minute. To be honest, we kissed a little, I walked her back to my place, my normal routine. She would not come up, which is fine. Sometimes that happens. Not a surprise, look at the picture, the whole frame was very romantic. I feel I handled a flake very well, all thanks to PWF. Thank you.

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As my first date left (see earlier break down), another Hinge girl texted me out of the blue. Been trying to get her out. Been following Alex's instructions- patient, playing it cool. And bang, out of the blue she texts. Yessssss. She is in my bed sleeping right now. I used the same texting pattern, cause it works. Big game changers for me that I learned from PWF is to go slow, be patient, be persistent, yet not needy, don't push too hard for the meetup. Thank you Alex, you are the man! Just want to mention, I sent this girl an Uber. It was already 10:30pm and I didn't want her to flake. Also, I take girls out and get them Ubers all the time.

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Any recommendations on how to respond?

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This is not a LR, though it could be. And will be. Matched with this girl on Hinge, once again thanks to Bossman Alex. Look at the texting. It is exactly what he teaches, even up to the last text when she is in an Uber. Nothing crazy, just got to the point and set the date. Ran my normal date, walked her back to my place, said the same stuff I always do. Brought her up. Everything went well. Made out, brought her in my bedroom, we were on the bed. Yet she stopped. Wasn't really LMR, more of a decision. Made some food, chilled, then tried again. It got going but it was not on and she was leaving. It was early, like 8:30pm. I was surprised. So I asked her if she wants to hang out again. She said definitely and then she told me- she wasn't prepared down there and hasn't shaved. She said it's been a while and she didn't expect it. I told her I don't care yet her mind was made up. She is pretty sexy and I will follow up with her. Thank you Alex. I now have a viable system to get dates with the girls who want to date me. I learned from you to be patient with the texting, to treat it like a chess game, use strategy. I take each interaction slowly and I'm not rushing it like I used to.

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Alex has a repeatable system that keeps on giving. I wouldn't give PWF full credit for this lay, though without PWF it would not have gone as smooth or even gone at all. I matched with this girl on Hinge, thanks to Alex been killing it on Hinge. We have past history, though I don't remember her. The "feeling spontaneous tonight" text is so perfect. She was super compliant and interested. If you ever don't call a girl, she will want you more. In the past I never would have had her come straight over. Alex has opened up my eyes. I almost met this girl out, a couple blocks from my place, then realized wtf I am doing and switched it to my place. She happily came over. In the end, I know why my older self never called. She is fuckin annoying, never calling her. Thank you PWF.

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Hi, I had a Tinder match that was DTF. With better game I might have been able to get her over. Any advice on what I should have done is appreciated.

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I have tried online dating several times through the years and shamefully never got any matches or dates. It was embarrassing. So I always focused on cold approach game, which I am good at. In addition, I have lost many girls due to bad texting, which I am not good at. When I found PWF I was at level 0 in terms of online dating. I didn't even have a profile. That was 2 months ago. I watched all of Alex's YouTube videos. My texting immediately improved and I started to make an online dating profile. After watching all his videos, on 8/13/20, I bought The Online Dating Blueprint. Blew my mind! Same incredible content as on the YouTube channel, yet much deeper and more thorough and easier to learn. I went through everything. Most important were my pictures. I spent a week putting together my first batch, which were better than any of the pictures I have ever used. Alex was honest and straightforward and told me not one of them would work. He advised I get a haircut, grow facial hair, change my style a little for the pictures, and don't pose. I listened. Alex was patient with me as I uploaded new pics almost every day. After 3 weeks, I now have a solid profile. All I can say is I get matches and some pretty hot chicks. I have already met up with a few of the girls and posted a LR plus another start to finish example in the Mastermind Group, which is worth joining. I used, text for text, Alex's exact system he teaches to close these girls. I am on Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge. Hinge is the best for me.

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