Hot to Respond

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Matt Furman Avatar

16 Posts (+15)

151 Cmts (+29)

Matt Furman Avatar

16 Posts (+15), 151 Cmts (+29)

Any recommendations on how to respond?

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13 Posts (+2), 29 Cmts (+3)

Too abrupt on the wine proposal imo. Establish some rapport first!

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Matt Furman Avatar

16 Posts (+15), 151 Cmts (+29)

Appreciate your feedback. I definitely rushed it. Still learning...

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13 Posts (+2), 29 Cmts (+3)

For sure.

Establish a chain of compliance. Start will small hoops and build up to bigger hoops.

“Yes” ladder.

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avilench . Avatar

393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)

When she said "Maybe in the distant future" I would've definitely called that out with either "Distant future?" or "You don't sound confident" I think with that you would've gotten to the root cause of her hesitation right there and then.

At this point, I would say "Well yeah, we haven't even met yet"

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Matt Furman Avatar

16 Posts (+15), 151 Cmts (+29)

Appreciate your advice, I'll give it a shot. I went for the wine close too quickly. After realizing it I let it go and figured I would try to close later. Sub optimal texing. I deserve to lose this one. Will let you know. Thank you.

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