When she said "Maybe in the distant future" I would've definitely called that out with either "Distant future?" or "You don't sound confident" I think with that you would've gotten to the root cause of her hesitation right there and then.
At this point, I would say "Well yeah, we haven't even met yet"

13 Posts (+2), 29 Cmts (+3)
Too abrupt on the wine proposal imo. Establish some rapport first!
16 Posts (+15), 151 Cmts (+29)
Appreciate your feedback. I definitely rushed it. Still learning...
13 Posts (+2), 29 Cmts (+3)
For sure.
Establish a chain of compliance. Start will small hoops and build up to bigger hoops.
“Yes” ladder.