Update everybody. I ran into her like 5 more times and left my headphones in and let her initiate every single time and do all the work. When we’d chat I would flirt subtly, pass little shit tests and be the first to leave. The last time I saw her I elbowed her and said catch you later. She didn’t want me to leave and when I went to my car she rushed out behind me and pulled off her mask. She had a smirk and when I was pulling out she stood behind my car with a big smile at this point and was waving. I saw it in my rear view mirror. I decided it was enough investment in her to initiate a text interaction if I didn’t hear from her in a half hr. I did and she replied in under a minute. Texts were going great until I sent 2 voice notes getting ahead of myself and too comfortable 😐. She didn’t reply and I believe she went to another store to avoid me today. Every time I’ve gone there since I met her I have seen her. I think I may have fucked it up for good. Had 2 other great interactions yesterday leading to #s and fucked up both of them as well. Feels bad man. I ruin it every time
Posts by Brian Arr
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Some crazy shit happened the other day. I just woke up and I’m getting coffee at a counter, asocial mood, headphones in,bundled up for winter weather, back facing the rest of the store and all of a sudden this absolutely stunning girl quickly comes up to me, reaches over to grab something in front of me, looks straight in my eyes and smiles. I was startled and I say “hey how are you” she says “good how are you” pretty basic but the way she acted and her voice tone told me it was on.. she pays at the counter and I’m behind her and run out while she’s getting in her car. She’s smiling with her mouth wide open the whole time and the first thing she says is “do you come here a lot? I can’t believe I’ve never seen you before” she asks where we live she puts her # in my phone the whole interaction was phenomenal. We both leave for work and I text her when I get home. Starts off good.. quickly dissipated and I get left on read when I go for the date. I run into her today (2 days later) she apologizes for not answering and says she’s been busy. Convo is ok and at one point I suggests meeting at the bar next door that night. Too busy. Another night this week. Too busy. I tell her to Hmu when she figures it out. That interaction was meh.. they keep happening in the morning before coffee and before work and I’ve been walking on eggshells prior to this because I keep blowing amazing interactions with texting. Like 12 in a row that should be layups
