She's probably the hottest chick I pulled so far. It took 3 dates to finally seal the deal. She seemed trustworthy. We both performed oral and we had sex twice. Both times with a condom. The second time I lost my boner cause of the condom. So I said let's do it raw this time and she said no. She started acting really weird then she told me it's cause she has HPV. I kinda freaked out a little and she got upset and left. She texted me she wants to keep seeing me. I haven't responded yet cause idk what to do. I messaged my doctor and he said it can be transmitted through contact with warts or unprotected sex. But she didn't have any visible warts so I think I'm in the clear. She looked, smelled, and tasted clean. Doc also said there's nothing a guy can do but wait for symptoms. And symptoms could show up years down the road so I'll never know if I got it from her. My date told me I shouldn't be upset cause lots of girls can have HPV and they might not tell me. And I shouldn't leave her for something like this. But I don't want warts and I don't want cancer. This sucks cause she's seriously the hottest chick I've been with. But I gotta think with the right head on this one and let her go. How would you guys handle this situation?
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Texted back and forth on bumble. Very flirty. I told her let's swap numbers and we can share a bottle of wine on my romantic balcony. She texted me the next day, "I've been trying to reach you about your extended warranty. Lol jk it's Sarah". I was on another date and went to the bathroom and replied something quickly "oh damn I needed to update that, you had my hopes up lmao". No reply.... It's been a couple days. Should I double text? Idk what I should say.
I texted to confirm the date tonight and she said, she has a lot of coursework to do, any chance I can come up to her? She lives 20 min away. Idk if she wants to meet at a bar near there or at her place. I didn't respond yet. I just don't want to waste my time cause I heard if she's not invested enough to come to you then it's probably not a good move. What do you think I should say?
Girl liked my picture so I messaged her. Then she liked my message. Waited a few days and messaged her again and she liked that message. Time to leave it alone? I'm not gonna lie, I laughed when she liked the second one. Troll game strong with this one.
I can get from match to date easily but I have trouble getting from the date to my bed. I just got out of a long term relationship and still new to dating. So far from bumble I've gone out with 2 girls (Sarah and Lisa). With Sarah, we went out to a bar and date went well, I invited her back to my place and she said not on the first date. We made out at the end and set up a second. Second date went well at a bar. I invited her back and she said she wants to wait still but she wants another date. We made out again and she left. Third date is coming up but I'm taking her to the park this time cause the bar is too expensive. With Lisa, I took her to the bar. Date went well and I invited her back to my place but she said she wants to get to know me more first. We made out at the end and she left. Second date is coming up at another bar. Both times I had serious make out sessions with tongue and grabbing but they both want more dates first. How long does it take you guys?
Tinder date went well. Met at the bar for a couple beers. Afterwards I invited her back to my place but she said not on the first date. I walked her to the train station and made out before she left. I asked her again to come back to my place and she said Tuesday she'll come over. So is it better to just text her to come straight to my place this time to split a bottle of wine? Or is it better to pick another bar spot and then come back to my place afterwards this time?
I just moved to a city and tinder/bumble is crazy. I have a few dates lined up next week. Way better than the small town I came from. But I see a lot of hot girls walking down the street that are way hotter than my matches. Is it worth it to talk to them? What would your approach be? Is it better to be direct and just say, "Hey you're almost ask cute as me. We should swap numbers and get to know each other." Or do you have a better line to try out?
I'm talking to girls and sometimes I try to recycle phrases that work. But sometimes I forget what I used before. Do you guys keep a journal or something and have a list of lines to use? How do you guys stay organized? Or don't you worry about that too much and just go off the cuff?
This is one of the hotter chicks that have matched me. Her bio said she needs references. So this is how I opened. But her reply is confusing. What should I say to her? Is there a way to turn this convo back to sexual?
Do you guys follow the rule of half your age +7? Or is that only a rule for actual relationships? I'm 31 so that would make my minimum 22. But when I'm at the bars there's 21 year olds so should I just set my limit to 21 instead?
