What do you say if your date wants you to come to her instead?
I texted to confirm the date tonight and she said, she has a lot of coursework to do, any chance I can come up to her?
She lives 20 min away. Idk if she wants to meet at a bar near there or at her place. I didn't respond yet. I just don't want to waste my time cause I heard if she's not invested enough to come to you then it's probably not a good move. What do you think I should say?
If she has work to do, that's a legit reason. Think about it, if you were busy, but still wanted to get laid (who doesn't), wouldn't you want the same thing? So as long as your text game was sexual (i.e. not platonic), and you can successfully escalate in person, you should be good to go.
As far what you should say? I mean, you could pull a bit, if you wanna push/pull, but generally, most guys tend to over-game, so I say keep it simple.
Okay cool I'll definitely link up her way then. What do you mean by push/pull? Not familiar with that terminology sorry
https://www.bestpuatraining.com/push-pull
That's a kind of explanation. But like I said, don't over think it. A lot of guys can get caught up in like "Should I pull here? Am I pushing too much? Should I?" It gets weird. I guess I brought it up because someone may suggest it. But as far as I'm concerned, if you're down, and she's down: get it.
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Well, there is a huge difference between meeting at her place and a bar near her place. So, I would definitely find out which one she means. If it's her place, nothing wrong with that