I was hooking up at my place with a really quite DTF girl from Hinge. I fingered her then went down on her, both until she came. Then she took my pants off and gave me a handjob over my briefs. Then I pinned her and playfully choked her. At that point, she unexpectedly excused herself to the bathroom. After that, she said this isn't gonna work out and gave me some bullshit excuse like "it's not my style", then "you don't seem to know what you're doing", then left. When I asked her what make her say that, she pulled another excuse "the kissing wasn't good, too much tongue". She is big into kissing but she also used her tongue a lot, so I don't buy that.  Do you think she was real about the kissing too much tongue? Or was it the choking? I also have to say I didn't get hard, even during her handjob. Could that be the reason why? Is it possible that she thought I'm only choking her in an attempt to get hard?
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Not sure if that was a shit test, or if my grammar was really that atrocious. Or was that too sexual too soon?
I've been talking to this older girl on Bumble for a few weeks now. I made plans to meet her tonight and hard closed this morning at 9 by inviting her to my romantic patio at 8pm. However, at 11 she said she doesn't go to somebody's house the first meet. I asked her "stranger danger", but no response so far. How long should I wait before suggesting a public place to meet close to my place?
We've been texting on Hinge and I said "looking nice and fit for our date", to which she asked me for a selfie. I told her to ask nicely, to which she gave me her phone #. I texted her " from Hinge ;)", to which she said "where is my selfie". Should I send her a selfie or still make her ask nicely?
I noticed a pattern of her suggesting her own place and time instead of mine. That wouldn't be a problem, but the red flag is that she's not asking if we could do another place/time, she's directly saying "we can meet in ...", "too late", etc. Is that reasonable for her to do? Btw we're in the southern US, so at 7pm it's already pretty dark
Met this Hispanic girl at a party on NYE, flirted, took pictures, and exchanged numbers. After sexting a few weeks, I got this text from her that makes no sense. Was my text too sexual too soon, perhaps she misinterpreted as a euphemism? How to respond to such? I was thinking one of "Admit it, you wish you'd hook up with a bad boy like me", "You wish I'd hookup with you. You're gonna have to beg me for it ;)", "Honey, if you were low value, I wouldn't hookup with you", or just ignore her text
