Hey All - I uploaded a video of a plane I was landing on Bumble. However, as the video didn’t include my face, I received a notification stating that I needed to include my face. Bumble took it down to which I then reuploaded it. However, then my account was unexpectedly banned. I've made several appeal requests, but unfortunately, I haven't received any response in the past three months. I'm seeking advice on how to get around the ban without resorting to using another cell phone. Would A) Getting a new SIM card B) signing in using a burner FB account C) Getting a google voice # D) Screenshotting my photos to remove meta data and E) factory resetting my phone be the ticket? If any of you have successfully navigated around a ban on Bumble or have any other suggestions, I would be grateful for your input. Thank you in advance for your help! avilench .
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Hey All - Been dating a girl for a few months now and she is bi. She's known she's been bi for a few years now, but didn't engage sexually with other women until last year. Her seeing other women dose not bother me. However, my question is if someone is bi would that write her off as being capable to be in a monogamous relationship with a straight male? We're not official yet, but just curios as I have not been a position like this before. @avilench .
Hey all - Been seeing someone for about 2 months now, and a bit torn which direction to take this. I really vibe with this person outside the bedroom, and I'm not embarrassed to be around them in public. No red flags yet and she's my type on paper (Tall, blonde, career focused, has her own hobbies). Iv'e met some of her friends and she's met one of mine. However, the sex is good, but not great as opposed to other people I've seen in the past. My question is A) When should I bring up where do we see this going and B) Is it normal to be in a monogamous relationship, but still think "what if" in terms of seeing other partners? I've never been in a serious relationship, so that would be a brave new world for me. avilench .
Hey all - Any suggestion on what I should reply next? I’ve been sending more flirty stuff as of late, but get stuck when they ask for more like attached. Context I’m 6’3” and pretty outdoorsy myself
Hey All - Been seeing a girl since 3/2 & today is 4/4. At what point do you know when someone should be considered GF material? Her face is good, our personalities are very similar, and she has a solid job/friend group/interesting hobbies. However, I feel the grass is always greener on the other side, and think I might be able to find someone even hotter. At what point do you know if she's the one to stay monogamous with? Side note, I still have been seeing other people on the side, but don't believe she is aware. I'd say one thing we differ on is politics (but she's not obscene about it) and diet (she's vegan, I'm keto)
What should I respond with? Should I go in with a wine close already or respond with something to build more investment?
Hey all - My definition of "success" on a date is a same night lay. With this being said, my success ratio is literally 50% consistently. One date I won't get laid, and the next date (with a different person) I will like clockwork. So much so I'll go on a date with someone who may not be 100% my type, just so my next date with someone who is my type has higher odds of leading to sex. My theory is either A) The dates which don't lead to sex are arguably with women who are considered 9's, while ones which do are arguably 7's or B) It's purely a mental thing and I psych myself out. My usual pull is meet at a bar nearby, ask to walk around the street we're on (which I live on), then casually ask "wanna see my pool deck? (which faces a large river)", and from there make a move on the deck which may/may not lead to sex back at my apartment. Tonight a 9 had a quick work call in the lobby before we went up. Then as I was about to make a move on the pool deck her phone rang again. She then rejected my attempt for a kiss chalking it up as "with this call I'm now in work mode, and not sure if I can do this". OH, and she just got out of a 5 year relationship. Input on A) my pull method and B) my lay ratio would be much appreciated. Thanks!
Hey All - Been using this opener and sometimes get responses such as attached. Any suggestions on how to respond? Was going to respond with "Tall & outdoorsy, with a bit of a wild side" or something ending in wild side. Context I am 6'3 & she's 5'9. Any suggestions on how to respond? Thanks.
Hi All - I accidently reported someone on Hinge using the reason "Not interested in this person". Meant to just un-match them. My question is, does reporting people on Hinge hurt your visibility in their algorithm? Kinda like how Tinder has an ELO score. Feel like since I did that yesterday I have not gotten any new matches, but that may be entirely coincidental.
Hey all - I have a pretty sexual Hinge profile. However, sometimes when I bring a girl back they'll bring up "I know your profile is pretty sexual, but what are you looking for?". Any ideas how to respond to this? Most recent example was a sexually conservative Texan girl who seemed very hesitant, and decided to just call it a night given I feel if we hooked up I might have pressured her into something. Did I fuck up by calling it a night? Hit em' with, "just a cool girl I have chemistry with", but overall when this question comes up feel like it kills the mood. Dating god Alex, your input would be much appreciated lol
