Hey all - My definition of "success" on a date is a same night lay. With this being said, my success ratio is literally 50% consistently. One date I won't get laid, and the next date (with a different person) I will like clockwork. So much so I'll go on a date with someone who may not be 100% my type, just so my next date with someone who is my type has higher odds of leading to sex.

My theory is either A) The dates which don't lead to sex are arguably with women who are considered 9's, while ones which do are arguably 7's or B) It's purely a mental thing and I psych myself out. My usual pull is meet at a bar nearby, ask to walk around the street we're on (which I live on), then casually ask "wanna see my pool deck? (which faces a large river)", and from there make a move on the deck which may/may not lead to sex back at my apartment. Tonight a 9 had a quick work call in the lobby before we went up. Then as I was about to make a move on the pool deck her phone rang again. She then rejected my attempt for a kiss chalking it up as "with this call I'm now in work mode, and not sure if I can do this". OH, and she just got out of a 5 year relationship. Input on A) my pull method and B) my lay ratio would be much appreciated. Thanks!