LMR When in Apartment Solutions Question

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Hey all - I have a pretty sexual Hinge profile. However, sometimes when I bring a girl back they'll bring up "I know your profile is pretty sexual, but what are you looking for?". Any ideas how to respond to this? Most recent example was a sexually conservative Texan girl who seemed very hesitant, and decided to just call it a night given I feel if we hooked up I might have pressured her into something. Did I fuck up by calling it a night? Hit em' with, "just a cool girl I have chemistry with", but overall when this question comes up feel like it kills the mood. Dating god Alex, your input would be much appreciated lol

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avilench . Avatar

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Yeah. Possibly. I mean if you have a sexual profile and the chicks are coming over, they are dtf. There might be an odd exception but typically at that point, it's your game to lose

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C

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Can you be more specific, like saying/doing the wrong thing and it kills the night? Ngl still learning that fine line of when a girl says she doesn't want to sleep with me (even though she does) and when she ACTUALLY means it.

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avilench . Avatar

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J

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I would add "I have no expectation on my end but I prefer to let things unfold naturally." after you say a cool girl I have chemistry with.

also you should try and screen for this via text when you are working on setting up the date. You can ask her via text what she is looking for first, then reply with "a cool girl I have chemistry with; kinky sex and cuddles. is a huge plus."

that will get the point across better upfront so you don't run into the as much LMR. It will still happen but it will be less significant and frequent.

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