Thank you!

Rip sorry man. My general thoughts, which might be wrong ofc, are that at this early in the convo it's great to go sexual by framing it as a joke (i.e you both know what you are talking about but you won't make it explicit unless she gives enthusiastic consent).

But anyway it's hard bc I have lost girls due to not going sexual enough early. And also lost girls due to going sexual too fast so.... Good way to calibrate this is by asking the "biggest turn on/fantasy" or the "give me the basics, fun kinks?" It will give you a read on how comfortable she is going sexual over text

I would ask why. Potentially call her. I think you got to find out the reason

It might be

• doesn't want people to find out
• doesn't want to risk having to change jobs/ being uncomfortable if she rejects you
• doesn't want you to be intimate with her at work

You can't as far as I know

Yep. This is going downhill fast.

• "yes, you'll find out on our romantic date"
• then either heart her message when she replies or ask for number depending on what you feel is right

She is not giving resistance so you are good. At this point you are sexting. I believe Alex has said a few times that sexting should really be used as a way to get the girl over so move things forward. I'm not sure about logistics though. How long until she is back?

PS: also take my thoughts with a grain of sand since I haven't done a lot of sexting.

Went with a variation of your suggestion since no other ideas.

"The world is a wild place, gotta know what I'm getting into 😉"

I'll update with the results

This is more texting than I would do. But if it works it works.

Since you have time to kill and you don't want her to get bored I would make sure to stretch my texts as much as possible (reply every 2-3 days rather than every day).

Two approaches here, I like the playful one more:

• that's what bad girls get ;)
• can't think of a correct text right now but playful msg based on Zain's idea of you being a booty critic.

Why do you prefer saying yes and nothing more vs saying yes + asking a question?

If it's just that dw. Ik. But this much is fine imho