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I would ask why. Potentially call her. I think you got to find out the reason
It might be
- doesn't want people to find out
- doesn't want to risk having to change jobs/ being uncomfortable if she rejects you
- doesn't want you to be intimate with her at work


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"It's just a casual drink. No expectations"