Yeah I get tbf. I just thought everyone knows the expression and as it's obviously a joke.

She replied back with "am I in the Godfather rn?"

I used the first. I got back "Yeah? In what way🤣"

She replied with "WHAT?! 😂😂😂".

Thanks, I'll use that. See I was thinking of saying that from watching your videos but was still hesitant.

So is my vibe still too platonic? And if so, what do I say to gives that off and how could I have changed it

Cheers. She got back to me with "I don't like not knowing things tho".

Should I go with something along the lines of - "if you ask me nicely" - "you'll find out soon enough" or "would you prefer I tell you or show you"

Xs are Just what people in the UK put at the end of texts to symbolise kisses. To some it doesn't mean much they just do it out of politeness/habit whereas for others it might. To me it seems needy if a guy does imo or just unnecessary I feel like it feminises the text.

Seems like he's asking too many questions and yes/no ones at that whereas when he stated something "I have a thing for Asians" she also added something to the convo i.e. she liked white boys.

Convo doesn't feel like it flows and maybe tried to sexualise too fast? Depending on how she answers it might've paid off or if not bring it back under control

Is that bad in general or just over text and how can I avoid that and make it relatable?

Cheers, the articles were of big help.

Yeah I'm fluent.

I was thinking of responding with something along the lines of not finding the right "teacher" yet

Firstly I want to thank everyone for the feedback. I was initially going to leave it for another few days tbh and question her humour with something like the example above or a variation on "tell me you can take/handle other things better than you can take a joke".

However she's just got back to me with this and I feel like her vibes changed. Now I think I should try sexualise this in a funny playful way such as a play on tongues or whispering in her ear but would that be too soon/risky?