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What do I do when I suggest the place that’s 15 minutes from me but 45 minutes from her and she suggested the halfway date. We are about an hour apart and she’s a more conservative girl. How much do I go back-and-forth or is it better Alex to just say I’ll come down near her because I know you say halfway dates are bad.

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I don’t know if this is in the product but follow up texts Alex sends after a day a date. Let’s just say drinks stay where you thought went well and you didn’t kiss because you didn’t wanna go the point of no return. what is your follow up text and when do you send it? Do you wait till the next day do you wait a couple days? And if it’s the next day, what time do you send it at your answer of these concerns would be very appreciated.

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On dating apps, I often get into playful banter about going on activity dates. Sometimes I match with very conservative women, so I don’t feel comfortable suggesting going straight to my place if we’ve already agreed, for example, to meet for cocktails and visit an art exhibit. How can I transition things so I can suggest my place instead when I’ve already made plans? I don’t want to mess things up with more conservative women. Any strategies, Alex? Have you found that women that have looking for marriage on their profile or are have Catholic or something like that are open to coming over

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Hey Alex, how did you develop the bro,breaking rapport voice? “What’s up guys”

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Like if you do something, a little bit suboptimal on a date while still holding frame being like yeah that didn’t go well. Or after a date was too platonic, being like I’d to take you out again?

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“ so I had some personal news about a family member and. I wasn’t as present as I should’ve been on the date and as a result, the girl said at the end of the date that she didn’t see a connection. I’m not saying the family member situation was the only reason I wasn’t as present.Should I be honest about what happened? How do I reframe and say look I wasn’t on my a game. Do you want to try this again? Alex, have you ever had a date where maybe you need sexualize enough and it was too platonic and you set up another day and turned it around. Do I recall something specific on the date?

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I’ve heard some other dating coaches and you talk about sending text blast if Girl hasn’t responded to the third text in a row? What do these look like and how do you send them when the iPhone doesn’t allow you to text without them all being in the same group chat?

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If so, how do you recommend they disclose it for context I’m talking about mild autism,not full blown obvious. Just a tad awkward.

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So there was this chick I was talking to. Meet on feeld, she looking for a fuck buddy that can meet 2 times a month. We finally hooked up on Saturday. Made her cum a lot with sex and vibrator. I sent a message on the saying I hope you got home okay. She used to hit me up on the app and initiate,yet she hasn’t this week. Am I overthinking this? When should I re engage if she hasn’t reached out? Should I use a meme? What should I message?

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Hey Alex.Me and this chick were flirting but never met. We met on tinder but I’m not on it anymore. We were texting extensively last summer but never met up.What is a good revival text in this situation so she doesn’t freak out?

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