What do I do when I suggest the place that’s 15 minutes from me but 45 minutes from her and she suggested the halfway date. We are about an hour apart and she’s a more conservative girl. How much do I go back-and-forth or is it better Alex to just say I’ll come down near her because I know you say halfway dates are bad.
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Coming to her is even worse. I personally will never meet a girl anywhere besides my house, her house, or bar walking distance from my place. Everything else is a waste of time. So if shes not willing to come to bar near you, I would recommend moving on
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What has been your strategy for doing this with this historically do you only swipe on women that are like 20 minutes or less away or do you just try to convince women that live an hour or so away to come to you?
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I do typically a 30-40 mile range. Anything more then an hour away is gonna be low probability tho, Ive only made it work a few times
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Why is coming to her area five minutes away from her place worse than halfway. Does it set the wrong frame?
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Because she has all the power and you have none. Also, its much harder to pull to her place then it is to yours.