Hey all so I’ve been getting some dates for the first time since buying and upgrading Hingde (80 matches or so and set up three dates thus far with 3 or four more in the works for next week). I need some help with my dates and wanted some feedback. For context I am getting pretty good investment before the dates but I think a key issue I’m having is two fold: 1.) I initially frame a meet up as a wine date but it’s been ending up being a meet up at a bar/pub and the devolves into a regular dinner date somehow 2.) I think I am overthinking stuff on the date because there have been awkward pauses and the conversations aren’t that sexual/interesting. All three dates ended suddenly and the girl lost interest right after the date. More context: I live at home and dates right back to my place are tough unless it’s very late at night. So all in all here’s what I need answered: if I am to meet up with a chick(either local or halfway) how do I make sure it’s just a drink or two at a bar and how do I transition smoothly from the date to hanging after/hooking up? Let me know. Thanks!