It's extremely hard for me to not sound scripted but at the same time also not be boring, especially if the girl doesn't invest anything. I tend to text way too witty, also called over gaming even though I'm not using lines, but what's missing is "realness" and being more Blunt. Not sure how to go about it, I've gone trough PWF countless times but all that's sticking are single lines. If a girl doesn't give me anything to work with I'm often clueless on how to continue the conversation. I feel like I need some kind of structure to follow. Texting witty all the time is exhausting as well, as I always try to come up with witty responses on the Spot. If a girl invests in the conversation, bantering is easy but many girls don't invest right from the start on. I used to open girls with things like "Hey Name, give me your number and delete your account. You can tell your mum that you've found your husband đ" atleast that allowed me to follow some kind of routine/role play but many girls either didn't reply or thought its copy pasted. Some girls gave me their number (I actually got a Fuck buddy from that) and I went on some dates thanks to that opener but now I'm trying to become more real and get away from all those witty role plays. I also used to have a Roleplay bio that had the highest Opening rate ever and allowed me to banter easily with the girls who opened me (Partner in crime) seems like girls love that role play, but now I have a PWF bio and I've yet to be opened.
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I don't think the issue is that you are "too witty", but too goofy and immature. Atleast that's the vibe, every single one of the things you wrote gives off. For instance, saying "let's continue this conversation...." is really not witty at all. It just sounds kinda immature. A much better way to number close is literally to just say "Do you have whatsapp?"
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It was just an example, but I don't see where let's continue the conversation on Whatsapp sounds immature lol. Closing isn't really the problem but getting there in the first place
I'm too goofy and playful and need to learn how to simplify things to come across less gamey. But how do u actually learn this? From your responses I couldn't find anything that would help me to learn how to be more simple so far
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I would say pretend that the girl is right in front of you. Don't try to pretend to be someone you're not. The person portrayed through text is a representation of your actual personality.
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Lol. Dude, it's obviously the fucking dick pic part of that comment.
Take a second look at the product. I talk about simplicity in there, basically getting your point across in as few words as possible. Like with your closing line, you are trying to just get her number. That's the goal of that message. Adding "But only if you promise to not send me dick pics" is extremely unnecessary complexity which is working against you like in other situations as well