It's extremely hard for me to not sound scripted but at the same time also not be boring, especially if the girl doesn't invest anything. I tend to text way too witty, also called over gaming even though I'm not using lines, but what's missing is "realness" and being more Blunt. Not sure how to go about it, I've gone trough PWF countless times but all that's sticking are single lines. If a girl doesn't give me anything to work with I'm often clueless on how to continue the conversation. I feel like I need some kind of structure to follow. Texting witty all the time is exhausting as well, as I always try to come up with witty responses on the Spot. If a girl invests in the conversation, bantering is easy but many girls don't invest right from the start on. I used to open girls with things like "Hey Name, give me your number and delete your account. You can tell your mum that you've found your husband 😉" atleast that allowed me to follow some kind of routine/role play but many girls either didn't reply or thought its copy pasted. Some girls gave me their number (I actually got a Fuck buddy from that) and I went on some dates thanks to that opener but now I'm trying to become more real and get away from all those witty role plays. I also used to have a Roleplay bio that had the highest Opening rate ever and allowed me to banter easily with the girls who opened me (Partner in crime) seems like girls love that role play, but now I have a PWF bio and I've yet to be opened.

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I would say pretend that the girl is right in front of you. Don't try to pretend to be someone you're not. The person portrayed through text is a representation of your actual personality.

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I am like that on dates and when I approach a chick. I always make fun of the girl and treat them like my little sister and they love it

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