Hi everyone, Im getting a decent number of matches on hinge but noticed most girls are not responding to the first message or after a few messages exchanged. See attached for some screenshots. I'd like to know if I'm being too generic or boring, or if there girls are just low interest from the beginning. I'd appreciate if Alex sees this too. Thanks.
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Can you elaborate abit more on how my texting is too formal, maybe give some examples from the screenshots. That way I'll be more aware of it for next time.
I've had an active FireTexts subscription for a while, but I've only used it for takeaways/non compliance from the girl. I'll start implementing it throughout the whole conversation if needed.
Thanks.
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yeah here is an example, you said "is there an underlying concern" thats pretty formal. a better way of phrasing that would be "don't be shy"
i do definitely recommend using FireTexts more. it will fix this issue for you and you can learn from the examples.
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Ok, I understand the difference between those texts. I'll start using FireTexts more moving forward. But aside from being too formal, would you say i have the foundation down? Opener, building investment (banter, we frame, moving things forward), and closing. Want to eventually not rely on the AI so I can be my genuine self over text. Thanks.