Hi everyone, Im getting a decent number of matches on hinge but noticed most girls are not responding to the first message or after a few messages exchanged. See attached for some screenshots. I'd like to know if I'm being too generic or boring, or if there girls are just low interest from the beginning. I'd appreciate if Alex sees this too. Thanks.
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there are definitely some small texting mistakes but girls randomly dropping off is normal on dating apps. If I message 10 girls, maybe Ill get a date with 1. Which is why you need to run high volume
Your texting is too formal, id recommend using Firetexts to help you come up with better texts
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Can you elaborate abit more on how my texting is too formal, maybe give some examples from the screenshots. That way I'll be more aware of it for next time.
I've had an active FireTexts subscription for a while, but I've only used it for takeaways/non compliance from the girl. I'll start implementing it throughout the whole conversation if needed.
Thanks.
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yeah here is an example, you said "is there an underlying concern" thats pretty formal. a better way of phrasing that would be "don't be shy"
i do definitely recommend using FireTexts more. it will fix this issue for you and you can learn from the examples.