Hey Man, met this girl on a dating app. Started off with 3 Strong messages back and fourth. She then didn’t respond so next day I sent her a playful message telling her Me: I guess your a little shy, that’s okay. Kinda cute.. Girl: “Yoooo I’m dead 😂 I swear I just don’t check this shit and when I do I deadass forget to respond. You got instagram? Me: I do. I don’t get on this app much either. Let me get your number and let’s go do something sometime Girl: (instagram name) is my IG follow me there I’ll give you my number forsure but I’m even worse at responding to texts 😂 (phone number) Instagram always the best way!! Me: Bet I’ll follow you. Give me that follow back and I’ll hit you up in a little. I then texted her about 20 min later Me: Yooo is this (name) Her: Dis me Me: Cool. What are you about to do tonight? She never responded So I waiting till the next day and I sent her a text. Me: Hey. What did you do last night? Waited 3 days and texted her again and said "you're like Houdini. you straight disappeared. what you been doing?" She replied shortly after with "😂 I am deceased" I then waited 2-3 hours and gave her a call to set something up to meet or go out with her somewhere. She didn't answer so I texted her and said "Yo your wild. Let’s go out and get something to eat or something sometime this week or weekend. What day are you free?" Haven't Got a response and that was the other day. I did see she unmatched on the dating app the other day as well. What are you thoughts on this situation?

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I replied to one of her instagram stories and got a reply within a min. I haven't opened her message yet but Im still wanting to make something work with her... Should I go right for the close or should I small talk a little..?

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She's not invested in you so going for the close won't help. If she's showing more investment after some small talk/vibing then soft close.

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This is How it started and her Response. she Is Giving some investment and Laughing. Going to keep playing it out. Whats you'r advise? change the subject or keep it going... This is where I get lost..

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