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Hey Man, met this girl on a dating app.
Started off with 3 Strong messages back and fourth. She then didn’t respond so next day I sent her a playful message telling her
Me: I guess your a little shy, that’s okay. Kinda cute..
Girl: “Yoooo I’m dead 😂 I swear I just don’t check this shit and when I do I deadass forget to respond. You got instagram?
Me: I do. I don’t get on this app much either. Let me get your number and let’s go do something sometime
Girl: (instagram name) is my IG follow me there I’ll give you my number forsure but I’m even worse at responding to texts 😂 (phone number) Instagram always the best way!!
Me: Bet I’ll follow you. Give me that follow back and I’ll hit you up in a little.
I then texted her about 20 min later
Me: Yooo is this (name)
Her: Dis me
Me: Cool. What are you about to do tonight?
She never responded So I waiting till the next day and I sent her a text.
Me: Hey. What did you do last night?
Waited 3 days and texted her again and said
"you're like Houdini. you straight disappeared. what you been doing?"
She replied shortly after with "😂 I am deceased"
I then waited 2-3 hours and gave her a call to set something up to meet or go out with her somewhere.
She didn't answer so I texted her and said "Yo your wild. Let’s go out and get something to eat or something sometime this week or weekend. What day are you free?"
Haven't Got a response and that was the other day. I did see she unmatched on the dating app the other day as well.
What are you thoughts on this situation?
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
Honestly, the issue here is that you're chasing her too hard. Also, calling a chick outta the blue is rarely a good idea. They will more often than not avoid answering. I'd recommend going through some of the LRs to get a better feel of how to be persistent without getting needy and chasing
LRs?
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
Lay reports = successful interactions that lead to sex
393 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
two things, first off thats some very poor text game on your end. You come off as needy and a bit boring constantly asking her and what shes doing. Also poor closing, Secondly she seems like a time waster or at the very least a chick who is not serious about meeting. At this point i would just learn from this and move on. At this point check out some of my text game videos for help.
55 Posts (+3), 250 Cmts (-275)
Poor/illiterate texting from both parties. No idea wtf I just read.
Do you think I can re engage With this girl in a few days by messaging her on one of her IG story's?
4 Posts (+5), 38 Cmts (+2)
Are you sure she wasn't just trying to inflate her ig following