Hey Man, met this girl on a dating app. Started off with 3 Strong messages back and fourth. She then didn’t respond so next day I sent her a playful message telling her Me: I guess your a little shy, that’s okay. Kinda cute.. Girl: “Yoooo I’m dead 😂 I swear I just don’t check this shit and when I do I deadass forget to respond. You got instagram? Me: I do. I don’t get on this app much either. Let me get your number and let’s go do something sometime Girl: (instagram name) is my IG follow me there I’ll give you my number forsure but I’m even worse at responding to texts 😂 (phone number) Instagram always the best way!! Me: Bet I’ll follow you. Give me that follow back and I’ll hit you up in a little. I then texted her about 20 min later Me: Yooo is this (name) Her: Dis me Me: Cool. What are you about to do tonight? She never responded So I waiting till the next day and I sent her a text. Me: Hey. What did you do last night? Waited 3 days and texted her again and said "you're like Houdini. you straight disappeared. what you been doing?" She replied shortly after with "😂 I am deceased" I then waited 2-3 hours and gave her a call to set something up to meet or go out with her somewhere. She didn't answer so I texted her and said "Yo your wild. Let’s go out and get something to eat or something sometime this week or weekend. What day are you free?" Haven't Got a response and that was the other day. I did see she unmatched on the dating app the other day as well. What are you thoughts on this situation?
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This is How it started and her Response. she Is Giving some investment and Laughing. Going to keep playing it out. Whats you'r advise? change the subject or keep it going... This is where I get lost..
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Just to be clear that's still pretty low investment. You brought up a topic she's interested in and she's responding to it. She didn't go out of her way to ask you anything. I'd say just play the long game with her and respond to her stories every now and then. Start putting your own stories up showing that you're a high value dude and see if she at least views them. If she's showing interest in you over time through these DM exchanges then a soft close on a date could work. Honestly, she seems like a lot of work and someone who just wants attention/IG follows so I personally wouldn't bother but it's up to you bro. Plenty of other girls out there who aren't going to play as hard to get.
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Appreciate it. Thank you, she is also Hearting all my messages.. what would you say the reason behind that is? Right now, leaving her on seen would probably be the best thing to do correct?