We had been messaging daily for 12 days in a row . We had 44 back and forth messages to each other not counting double texts so I thought we had built rapport and I didn’t want to run out of things to talk about on our date. On Monday evening I thought we confirmed the date as she replied “that’s perfect” I didn’t message her again until Thursday midday (day of the date) to confirm. Then she said she now had plans. Was I at fault?

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J

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J

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Fuck. Okay thanks. Is that a common mistake I made or am I just an idiot. I thought her saying “that’s perfect” 2 days before the date was the confirmation.

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J

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I once arranged 3 dates, each in each day, during 3 days. I arranged them, like 2-3 days before. And when the days came, all of them canceled me. Also, once I arranged with them, I stop talking to them.

Since then, I always talk to them, until the date comes. In fact, I try to always at least greet them each day, even after the first/second date.

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